In Memory of

Ruth Lawler

February 25, 1928 - February 12, 2011
Ruth M. (Ebel) Lawler was a wonderful person who assumed many roles in life: wife, mother, grandmother, nurse and friend, to name a few. She was born in Lincoln, Illinois, to Rudy and Nita Ebel on February 25, 1928, growing up among the cornfields of rural Illinois while attending Lincoln Public Schools. Upon graduating from Lincoln Community High School in 1945, Ruth attended Valparaiso University for two years before transferring to St. Louis City Hospital School of Nursing where she graduated in 1951. While there, Ruth met, fell in love with, and then married Matthew Parlyn "Pat" Lawler Jr., a medical resident at the hospital. They settled in Des Moines, Iowa, where Pat was an obstetrician-gynecologist and Ruth was a stay-at-home mom. Together they raised nine children: Mary Lynn, Nancy, Katie, Matthew, Michael, Mollie, Patrick, Robert and Jamie with the help of their beloved Matzie (Mrs. Mary Robertson). When Pat died unexpectedly in 1979, Ruth resumed her nursing career and finished raising the four youngest children on her own. Her efforts paid off; she was the proud mother of five physicians, a lawyer, a nurse, a special education teacher and an actress turned bookstore owner. After seeing her youngest child, Jamie, graduate from medical school and married, Ruth moved to Jacksonville, Florida to enjoy warmer weather and the company of her daughter Katie and her family. She returned to live in Des Moines, Iowa, in 2007, where she lived until November 2010, when she moved to Cherokee, Iowa, to be close to her daughter, Mollie. Ruth lived in Cherokee until her death at the age of 82. Ruth enjoyed living life to the fullest and loved to travel to Europe, Hawaii and to the homes of her children. She loved the theatre, the symphony, fine wine, good conversation as well as her children, 45 grandchildren, three great-grandchildren and good friends. She believed in tackling life with a backbone and a funny bone and was an inspiration to all who knew her. She died on February 12, 2011, from complications of pneumonia. She was preceded in death by her husband, Dr. Matthew Parlyn Lawler, Jr; son, Dr. Michael Lawler; her parents, Rudy and Nita Ebel, and her brother, Walther Ebel. She is survived by her children and their spouses, Mary Lynn and Frank Talboy, Boise, Idaho; Nancy and Mark Dickhute, Omaha, Nebraska; Katie and Dr. Paul Pettit, Jacksonville, Florida; Dr. Matthew and Karen Lawler, Des Moines, Iowa; Mollie and Jay Loughlin, Cherokee, Iowa; Dr. Patrick and Kaye Lawler, Sioux Falls, South Dakota; Dr. Robert and Paula Lawler, Lemont, Illinois; and Dr. James and Angela Lawler, West Des Moines, Iowa. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Matthew, Tara, Katie Ruth and Rebeccah Talboy; Andrew and Christopher Dickhute; Karrie Pettit, Lacey and Steve Perez, Bonnie and Carey Stanley; Paul, Meredith and Colleen Pettit; Kathleen, Kelly, Mary Pat, Christine and Matthew Lawler; John, James, Nicholas and Patrick Loughlin; Sean, Maggie, Kara, Brian, Elena, Alexei and Rudy Lawler; Mary Kate, Danny, Paddy, Sheila, Timmy, Billy, John Paul, Michael, Mary Therese and Tommy Lawler; Mollie, Annie, Madeline, John, Mary and Maureade Lawler, and three great-grandchildren, Elena and Steven Perez and Carey Dale Stanley III. Visitation is Friday, February 18, from 5 to 8 p.m. with a rosary at 7 p.m. at McLaren's Chapel in West Des Moines, Iowa, and a Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday, February 19, at 10 a.m. at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in West Des Moines, Iowa. Burial will follow at Resthaven Cemetery. Memorials may be made to the Arthritis Foundation or the Alzheimer's Association.
Funeral services for Ruth Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:00 A.M. Saturday, February 19, 2011 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in West Des Moines, Iowa
Visitation will be held from 5:00-8:00 P.M. with a rosary at 7:00 P.M. at McLaren's Chapel in West Des Moines, Iowa.
Resthaven Cemetery Des Moines, Iowa


Sunday, February 20, 2011 at 12:00 AM
“Ruth Lawler was a dear friend to everyone who resided here @ Careage Hills in Cherokee IA and she will long be dearly missed by many of us. Her daughter Molly Loughlin has long been a dear friend of mine so I'd wish her & her family my deepest condolence.”
- Karn J.Monson
Saturday, February 19, 2011 at 12:00 AM
“What a special, wonderful women Ruth must have been. Ruth was so blessed to have a family who loved her so very much. Ruth's love and strength shows in the children, and grandchildren she raised. The knowledge of Ruth's love for her family will hopefully comfort their hearts at this time.. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family during this time of grief..

- Love Rosemary & Greg Tres and Family
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